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 Originally Posted by Lukie
What makes you think a bunch of randoms on a poker forum, with a demograph heavily slanted toward guys who will respond favorably to your position, gives you more insight into the situation than your girlfriend? Relationships are supposed to be based largely on open communication and if this is a gray area where she isn't comfortable, you should consider that.
I was trying to come up with a smiley face that would convey the following: I trust based on how you are asking that you are sincere that you don't want to cheat on your gf, but a) you don't understand the mathematical implications of 0% (super nitty) and b) from a practical standpoint I'm sure you know there is a non-trivial chance that you are hooking up with some rando there even if you don't intend on it.
My point is that if she is uncomfortable, its because she doesn't trust me, which is fucked up, or she's just jealous and being a bitch about it (which has become a pattern in our relationship).
EDIT: I'm not talking about being around other girls necessarily, but just going out and having fun without her.
The thing is she wont admit to being either of those, so she just says it's "inappropriate". Which is bullshit. At the same time, I'm a firm believer that if you're in a serious relationship and someone asks you not to do something (and doesnt ask you all the time) than you dont do it, period. That doesn't necessarily mean you have to be happy about it.
There is a 0% chance of me hooking up with someone because I got "too drunk" or anything like that . I suppose there's a 1% chance I get super pissed at my gf for some reason and also find the hottest girl in the world who just happens to be into me. But for the most part I would NEVER cheat on someone as opposed to just dumping them and then hooking up with whatever other girl.
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