Quote Originally Posted by wufwugy View Post
She's right, he's wrong. The guy is clearly a self-centered cunt who understands only his own motivations (if that). She wanted something different and was open and honest about it without being overbearing. He acknowledged only himself. The quality of reasoning it takes to think that somebody in her shoes is being unreasonable is on the same level as if a guy was dating a fat gross smelly bitch who didn't give a fuck that he doesn't want to be with a fat gross smelly bitch. Professor Wugy diagnosis: dude's an egomaniac.
First -- this is from one person's perspective and she's bound to give a biased account. We don't know what conversations actually happened behind closed doors that prevented him from sharing information about his wealth to her or didn't make him trust her enough yet with that info. Maybe every time she "lightly prodded" him about money/future, he saw it as gold-digging. Different perspectives.

Second -- what problem did he create? He didn't break up with her, and he wasn't the one trying to make contact post-breakup. Even from her biased perspective, she's the one with the ego problem. "I broke up with him and he won't talk to me anymore"? BFD! She broke up with him, he doesn't owe her any more of his time. "I ran into his friends and tried to explain myself"? Why is she trying to turn his friends to her side and against him? She broke up with him, move on!

And the only reason she's complaining now is because she found out that he has money. How does that change the fact that they have completely different views on money and the future?

If this guy had that much money and lived the way he lived, it's because he wanted to live that way. Spending the rest of his life with someone that wanted something completely different? Probably not on his wish list. Kudos to him for making good decisions before ending up in a situation where someone can take half of that away from him.